"He never has time for me, it's just always that stupid computer(Ps4, XBOX, ...)!"
Oh no. Seems like you hooked up with a gamer. Poor thing. Break up. Never look back. There's no hope at all. That would be the easy way, hm? But maybe you're a fighter and you don't want to give up on that cute, yet a little weird guy. Then take this guide and it might help you.
There are a few things you need to understand first, before I start making some suggestions here.
1. As long as he still talks to you - everythings all right. He could almost always just leave and play his games. If he doesn't, you shouldn't have anything to worry about.
2. His hobbies doesn't have to be the same as your's. That's okay. Or would you want him to post duckface photos on instagram and colour his nails or something like that? See? People often talk about how necessary a hobby you both enjoy is. I think so too, but there should be room for other ones, too.
3. He doesn't want to call you and talk to you on the phone but talks to his buddies all the time via skype or teamspeak? I know it sounds stupid, but there really is a difference, at least for him. That skype/teamspeak/whatever call has a clear reason and a goal. They work together in an game and communicate about strategies in the game. Not that lovey-dovey chatting with you is boring, but it is not as clear structured and you might tell him things, he's not so much interested in. Yeah, he should listen, but.. he's just another human being and human beings tend to get bored easily. Don't be too mean to him, especially if you're not interested in his gaming stuff. If all your talk was about gaming, you wouldn't really listen, either.
So, you see, it's not really about him being a gamer, or a little odd. The problems you imagine to have a very common and are normal. And, you cause them as much as he does. But there are some other things that could help you wrapping him around your finger. ;)
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